Talking To Girls – What If She Has a Boyfriend?

One of the more frustrating things when you are single is sometimes it seems like every woman you have an interest in is dating someone. The next time you are talking to a girl and she mentions having a boyfriend, you should not react.

I am not suggesting you pursue women that are in relationships, because often that leads to avoidable physical violence.I am saying that you should continue the conversation with her, regardless of the fact that she is not a potential date.

Continue to talk to her and discover her interests, while still sharing parts or yourself. Act as if you did not hear the boyfriend remark, just don't ask for her phone number at the end of the conversation. Why?

1. It is still practice. Even if a woman has a boyfriend you do not talk with her any differently than if she did not. The only thing that changes is you don't try to line up a dater. You can still have a good, engaging, conversation.

2. You can get a female opinion. There are a million and a half questions we all have for women and why they do some of the things they do. You can finally ask these questions without any worries because she is taken.

Also you can ask their opinion on things, they will enjoy telling you. Get their opinions on things ranging from a girl you are interested in, too wardrobe advice. This is an unbiased and too often untapped, resource of great knowledge.

3. If she is unavailable, she likely has some single friends. It's amazing how just making that friendship with an unavailable woman can develop into a long line of quality girls for you to date. When an unavailable female thinks highly of you, she is going to want to set you up with her friends. That way you can be another couple for her and her boyfriend to spend time with.

4. While she is dating him now, nothing is forever. I am not suggesting you lay in wait for the relationship to end. If you approach your friendship with that mindset you are doomed. However just be her friend and if things don't work out with her current significant other, then there could be a possibility of things working out with you and her.