Picking Up Women - Are You Too Nice?

You have done this if you have ever been told

"I value our friendship too much to date you"

by a girl you were friends with and tried to take it to the next
level with.

When you heard it you probably thought to yourself

"That's BS you are suppose to be friends with the person you are
dating"

And you were 100% right. She also wants to be with a man that is
going to treat her the best.

You may have been that man but you blew it. You blew it because you
were too nice.

However this is a very common mistake and everyone has made it.

The problem is when you are too nice it is often seen as pathetic,
wimpy, and insecure. Women do not want to be with a pathetic,
wimpy, insecure guy.

Instead they are looking to be with confident, secure, strong,
independent men. You can portray this more effectively by not being
so nice.

For example:

1. When meeting women do not give them any compliments.

2. Do not hold the door open for her

3. Go out of your way to tease her or make fun of her (when and
where appropriate)

4. Don't always "be there for her"

5. Take it to the "next level" before you can get categorized as a
valuable friend. (Timely Action)

Don't take this the wrong way because I am not saying to be mean to
women.

However do not be too nice. You will create the attraction with her
in your ability to have a conversation.