When you go out and start talking to women it is incredibly important for you to show and display your personality. Sometimes this is even going to require you to be a little over-the-top and overly enthusiastic but the reward of connecting with a beautiful girl and walking away with her phone number. I guarantee it is more than worth it!
Easy Tips To The Approach
It will really help your conversation if before you go out and meet women. You go ahead and plan out some conversation topics. You are going to need to play these conversations out mentally and the different scenarios.
When I am getting ready to go out I want to think about one thing that I'm really passionate about or that shows my personality. I also try to make this some desirable characteristic for example; how much I value my family and especially my new nephew.
Now before you go out think about when you approach this girl and after you exchange names and shake her hand where is the conversation going? In reality it is up to you to guide and carry this conversation in order to maintain it, connect with her, and nurture a feeling of attraction from her.
For example; I may ask her how long she's been living here? Let's look at this in detail and give her two answers to this initial question.
The first is I just moved here and now you will need to follow that up with one more question such as; how do you like it here or where is your family living? The second response she says she's lived here her whole life. You can respond with, is all your family living here or do you have brothers or sisters?
After she answers your two or three questions, now you need to answer your own questions. However if you look closely you have already guided this conversation towards your topic which is how much you value your family.
You can respond with something like I just moved here from Florida but I love it out here, I do miss my family though they're all still in Florida and I have a brand-new nephew. He is only a year old but I sure do love the little guy!
Obviously answer with your own set of circumstances but the point of this example is to see how the conversation was guided even from the outset to your planned topic. You had thought about the possible answers and were still able to guide the conversation towards something that shed you in a good light and showed her a desirable characteristic.
How much your value of family which many women find attractive. They do think that one day you could potentially be that person she is creating a family with, depending on your age.
Now when you actually go out that night and you have that interaction with girls this can be your opening with each and every girl that you approach. This will really help if you get nervous which is normal and natural. Your body literally is going through a physiological response that is very similar to the flight or fight response.
I encourage you to think up a few conversation topics other examples would include: work, activities, politics, TV shows, news events, pop culture… It's smart to have a couple desirable characteristics but it's never a bad idea to just have some good conversation topics too.
These will help you get through those moments when you run out of things to talk about and hit those brick walls. Don't worry, this happens to everyone. The difference is your ability to get past that and move forward. Don't miss out any longer the woman of your dreams is out there go onward and find her!
Easy Tips To The Approach
It will really help your conversation if before you go out and meet women. You go ahead and plan out some conversation topics. You are going to need to play these conversations out mentally and the different scenarios.
When I am getting ready to go out I want to think about one thing that I'm really passionate about or that shows my personality. I also try to make this some desirable characteristic for example; how much I value my family and especially my new nephew.
Now before you go out think about when you approach this girl and after you exchange names and shake her hand where is the conversation going? In reality it is up to you to guide and carry this conversation in order to maintain it, connect with her, and nurture a feeling of attraction from her.
For example; I may ask her how long she's been living here? Let's look at this in detail and give her two answers to this initial question.
The first is I just moved here and now you will need to follow that up with one more question such as; how do you like it here or where is your family living? The second response she says she's lived here her whole life. You can respond with, is all your family living here or do you have brothers or sisters?
After she answers your two or three questions, now you need to answer your own questions. However if you look closely you have already guided this conversation towards your topic which is how much you value your family.
You can respond with something like I just moved here from Florida but I love it out here, I do miss my family though they're all still in Florida and I have a brand-new nephew. He is only a year old but I sure do love the little guy!
Obviously answer with your own set of circumstances but the point of this example is to see how the conversation was guided even from the outset to your planned topic. You had thought about the possible answers and were still able to guide the conversation towards something that shed you in a good light and showed her a desirable characteristic.
How much your value of family which many women find attractive. They do think that one day you could potentially be that person she is creating a family with, depending on your age.
Now when you actually go out that night and you have that interaction with girls this can be your opening with each and every girl that you approach. This will really help if you get nervous which is normal and natural. Your body literally is going through a physiological response that is very similar to the flight or fight response.
I encourage you to think up a few conversation topics other examples would include: work, activities, politics, TV shows, news events, pop culture… It's smart to have a couple desirable characteristics but it's never a bad idea to just have some good conversation topics too.
These will help you get through those moments when you run out of things to talk about and hit those brick walls. Don't worry, this happens to everyone. The difference is your ability to get past that and move forward. Don't miss out any longer the woman of your dreams is out there go onward and find her!
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