Talk To Girls - You Must Show Personality

When you go out and start talking to women it is incredibly important for you to show and display your personality. Sometimes this is even going to require you to be a little over-the-top and overly enthusiastic but the reward of connecting with a beautiful girl and walking away with her phone number. I guarantee it is more than worth it!

Easy Tips To The Approach 

It will really help your conversation if before you go out and meet women. You go ahead and plan out some conversation topics. You are going to need to play these conversations out mentally and the different scenarios.

When I am getting ready to go out I want to think about one thing that I'm really passionate about or that shows my personality. I also try to make this some desirable characteristic for example; how much I value my family and especially my new nephew.

Now before you go out think about when you approach this girl and after you exchange names and shake her hand where is the conversation going? In reality it is up to you to guide and carry this conversation in order to maintain it, connect with her, and nurture a feeling of attraction from her.

For example; I may ask her how long she's been living here? Let's look at this in detail and give her two answers to this initial question.

The first is I just moved here and now you will need to follow that up with one more question such as; how do you like it here or where is your family living? The second response she says she's lived here her whole life. You can respond with, is all your family living here or do you have brothers or sisters?

After she answers your two or three questions, now you need to answer your own questions. However if you look closely you have already guided this conversation towards your topic which is how much you value your family.

You can respond with something like I just moved here from Florida but I love it out here, I do miss my family though they're all still in Florida and I have a brand-new nephew. He is only a year old but I sure do love the little guy!

Obviously answer with your own set of circumstances but the point of this example is to see how the conversation was guided even from the outset to your planned topic. You had thought about the possible answers and were still able to guide the conversation towards something that shed you in a good light and showed her a desirable characteristic.

How much your value of family which many women find attractive. They do think that one day you could potentially be that person she is creating a family with, depending on your age.

Now when you actually go out that night and you have that interaction with girls this can be your opening with each and every girl that you approach. This will really help if you get nervous which is normal and natural. Your body literally is going through a physiological response that is very similar to the flight or fight response.

I encourage you to think up a few conversation topics other examples would include: work, activities, politics, TV shows, news events, pop culture… It's smart to have a couple desirable characteristics but it's never a bad idea to just have some good conversation topics too.

These will help you get through those moments when you run out of things to talk about and hit those brick walls. Don't worry, this happens to everyone. The difference is your ability to get past that and move forward. Don't miss out any longer the woman of your dreams is out there go onward and find her!

Talking To Girls – What If She Has a Boyfriend?

One of the more frustrating things when you are single is sometimes it seems like every woman you have an interest in is dating someone. The next time you are talking to a girl and she mentions having a boyfriend, you should not react.

I am not suggesting you pursue women that are in relationships, because often that leads to avoidable physical violence.I am saying that you should continue the conversation with her, regardless of the fact that she is not a potential date.

Continue to talk to her and discover her interests, while still sharing parts or yourself. Act as if you did not hear the boyfriend remark, just don't ask for her phone number at the end of the conversation. Why?

1. It is still practice. Even if a woman has a boyfriend you do not talk with her any differently than if she did not. The only thing that changes is you don't try to line up a dater. You can still have a good, engaging, conversation.

2. You can get a female opinion. There are a million and a half questions we all have for women and why they do some of the things they do. You can finally ask these questions without any worries because she is taken.

Also you can ask their opinion on things, they will enjoy telling you. Get their opinions on things ranging from a girl you are interested in, too wardrobe advice. This is an unbiased and too often untapped, resource of great knowledge.

3. If she is unavailable, she likely has some single friends. It's amazing how just making that friendship with an unavailable woman can develop into a long line of quality girls for you to date. When an unavailable female thinks highly of you, she is going to want to set you up with her friends. That way you can be another couple for her and her boyfriend to spend time with.

4. While she is dating him now, nothing is forever. I am not suggesting you lay in wait for the relationship to end. If you approach your friendship with that mindset you are doomed. However just be her friend and if things don't work out with her current significant other, then there could be a possibility of things working out with you and her.